Hey Jenna, we had the same problem with Mila. She still pretty much hates going in her
crate, and she'll plant her feet on the floor and make me drag her to it. When we got her in March she was perfect, just like your little guy, except her
crate. We actually did an experiment one day and put her in her
crate on our apartment balcony while we were home. She literally howled and cried, and dug at the bottom pan and bit and pulled at the door for four hours straight. She never calmed down. So of course, we couldn't leave her. How could I leave her when it was that traumatic? Granted, she is a year and a half so she's much older than your guy. I think I have discovered, however that she has confinement anxiety not separation anxiety. She couldn't care less who she is with, as long as she's with someone. So I knew she wasn't attached to me I just thought she hated being alone. Until one day I took a HUGE risk and left her on our balcony (3 floors up) on our apartment while we went to dinner with the in laws. I had all kinds of bloody visions of about 10 different ways she had killed herself while we were gone. We got back and she was completely fine. She couldn't have been finer hanging out outside by herself. It was the craziest thing.
When we moved though, and I got a job I had no choice but to leave her in her
crate all day. I still don't trust her to leave her for 8-12 hours out in the house by herself. She would probably be fine, knowing her, because she's also extremely calm and pretty much just lays around all day. That's all she does when I leave her out for just an hour or two while I go to the barn or something, just lays there. But still I don't trust her. So I have to
crate her when I go to work. I didn't really have a choice so my attitude was, she'll just have to get used to it. And she did. She still hates going in there but she's just hanging out when I get home now instead of completely losing her mind. She goes crazy if I
crate her while we're home though. She's also a brat, did I mention that? She doesn't like it if she's locked up while we're around. She also doesn't like being put in her
crate if SHE doesn't think it's necessary and will chew her collar off into a hundred pieces.
What kind of
crate does Kato have? Is it a plastic one that will fit him at full grown or a wire grow with you
crate? Do you put toys in his
crate with him? Mila completely ignores anything I put in her
crate with her, but I hear with other dogs this works
Also you can try leaving music or the tv on (didn't work with Mila). Not making a big deal out of leaving, de-sensitizing him to you picking up your keys, putting on your shoes, etc. You can also try putting a sweaty shirt of yours (gross I know) in his
crate with him, so it smells like you. I never tried that with Mila (I finally came to the conclusion that she's just a brat) but I did this with my semi-ferile cat I rescued and it worked fairly well. You can also try an analog clock in the room with him, it simulates a heart beat so he thinks he's not alone. Two things I've never tried but read that they do work, so it's worth a try for you. As a last resort you could also try Rescue Remedy, which I know you can get on Amazon and at Fresh Market if you have one of those near you.
How long have you had this issue? Since you got him? I would say continue with your routine and let him work it out for himself. I think he will eventually calm down. Believe me, I know it's distressing but other than everyone quitting their job and sitting at home with all the dogs all day every day, there's not a whole lot you can do. That's where I was and it's not as bad anymore. I have faith he'll eventually calm down.
Hope I helped! Keep me posted